Pat,
The cold patch used here is generally for pot holes of some magnitude (unfortunately Michigan has many). In my opinion, just a stop-gap measure. They shovel it in off a truck and let traffic tamp it down. It just seemed to me that the binder used to hold the aggregate together has been changed, (maybe to make it hold up better?) use to be just tar-like substance and it easily wore off the tires. This isn't much of a problem on car tires, but when you only have two wheels under you.. different story. I wondered about the difference between front and rear tire also, and my best guess is, that whatever the binder is, it is picked-up by the front tire and the rear, following the same path more or less, picks up little since it all got on the front. Just a guess though.