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Offline petercb750

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a honda/mrs problem
« on: November 05, 2011, 09:13:12 PM »
I have my eye on a CB1100R that has come up for sale...my dream bike from the early 80's, couldn't afford one back then so bought an 1100F instead...now I can afford it, it's well priced (almost too cheap), all numbers check out etc etc.
PROBLEM - mrs says "you don't need any more bikes, what do you want that for...." etc etc - I'm sure you've all heard it before. :(
What to do??? No good telling me to go buy it and beg for forgiveness - I've had my shrinking balls for a very long time and I'm rather attached to them.
Advice?? How shall I convince her, or do I just walk out and choose to live just with bikes for the rest of my life? (mmm, actually that could be an option...). ::)
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #1 on: November 05, 2011, 09:15:34 PM »
It's an investment, especially if it's a "too good" price...and buy her some earrings.
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #2 on: November 05, 2011, 09:19:04 PM »
She owns a jewelry/clothing/shoes etc shop....
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #3 on: November 05, 2011, 09:20:40 PM »
I always tell my wife that the bike is for her. Its worked at least 3 times. I think she has caught on though.

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2011, 09:22:50 PM »
I always tell my wife that the bike is for her. Its worked at least 3 times. I think she has caught on though.

Has potential, but I reckon she'd be wise to that....and then she'd want to ride it, and that ain't gonna happen!! :o
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2011, 10:17:27 PM »
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or do I just walk out and choose to live just with bikes for the rest of my life?

Should have married a bike mate, what more can i say.... :'(
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« Reply #6 on: November 05, 2011, 10:29:15 PM »
It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission....
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« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2011, 11:40:39 PM »
Read below  ;)
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #9 on: November 06, 2011, 01:11:35 AM »
The wife and I always discuse big $$ purchases weather it's for me, her or something for both of us. The final decision is always left up to me though and its worked out good this way for 31 years ;) If you want this CB1100 and you have the money get it!

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2011, 03:18:42 AM »
Just buy it Pete, but if you woose out like a big girls blouse and do what your wifey tells you to do, let me know where I can collect it.................. ;D
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2011, 05:44:00 AM »
Just go ahead and buy it but be prepared for some feedback. Cliff.

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #12 on: November 06, 2011, 05:59:59 AM »
"I'm sure you've all heard it before. "

Nope. I spent over 30 years making sure I wouldn't repeat my parents' mistakes.  You can bet she rides and loves bikes too ;) sorry had to rub it in :D
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #13 on: November 06, 2011, 06:20:00 AM »
  I guess you could explain to her how much you wanted the bike back then and it symbolizes your passion for motorcycle and your youth. 

 

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #14 on: November 06, 2011, 07:12:03 AM »
Do you have a couple bikes already? If yes, maybe you can do what I did.
Buy the bike and just tell her you traded one of your old bikes for it. Then move the old bike to a off site storage. I have four bikes but only two in the garage, so she just thinks I have two! I did sell the shifter kart to appease her though, didn't drive it much anyway, so she thinks she won that battle...HA!
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #15 on: November 06, 2011, 11:54:10 AM »
 My solution takes time. Ever since we have been married I've bought and sold stuff. She was pretty leery at first but she knows it's something I enjoy and I do make money at it.
 
 With that being the case, it's never about the money. She knows I generally only buy something that I can sell for more later.
 
 When I bought the CB750 I have now I showed her what they were worth and what I was buying the one I have for. I told her it was to resell. Well, I doubt I sell it any time soon and she's pretty much just let it go.

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« Reply #16 on: November 06, 2011, 09:47:14 PM »
 Now that the wife is wise to me buying bikes for her, I found a new strategy .
I have about as many surfbords hanging on the wall in one room as i have motorcycles in the garage. She wants me to get rid of the boards. So I traded 1 surfboard and some cash for 3 motorcycles. LOL  ;D

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #17 on: November 06, 2011, 10:03:28 PM »
This ALWAYS!!!! works for me. they dont have an argument to this little nugget. Buy it. when she gets mad give her some old lame excuse(but baby , its a classic) that will make her soooo mad she cant think straight. Then after her rant simply and exactly say this over and over until she gives....

ready.....

You know what? youre right, and I am sorry and I love you.

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #18 on: November 06, 2011, 10:20:57 PM »
Tell her you will sell one of your bikes to buy this. The only thing is that you can't wait until you sell yours because the CB1100R price is so good it won't last long, so you are going to buy it and put one of your bikes for sale.


And you will. At such a high price that nobody will ever buy it.

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« Reply #19 on: November 06, 2011, 11:24:49 PM »
I had one stored in friends garage and eventually brought it home into the basement in pieces and she didn't have a clue.  Now that I am starting to put it together I had to fess up. ;D  She just looked at me , shook her head and said "keep it out of the rest of the house".
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #20 on: November 07, 2011, 02:12:34 AM »
Pete

I'm the wrong bloke for asking advise on staying out of trouble, but, if you need any advise on getting into trouble, I'm a seasoned campaigner in that department.  ;D

One thing that I know works is a bloody big boys shed which makes it a lot easier to get the goodies in and out without having to go through "Backyard Customs"  ;)

It keeps you on your toes mate.

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #21 on: November 07, 2011, 08:44:52 AM »
It's an investment, especially if it's a "too good" price...and buy her some earrings.

I was going to suggest the same thing, i brought my ol lady home some earrings the day i brought my latest bike home.  too bad she owns a store full of it.

I ended up selling my other bike.  She didn't make me, i did it for space in the garage, but it sure made her happy
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #22 on: November 07, 2011, 08:53:55 AM »
This is an 1100R; there is no flinching allowed on this purchase.  Buy it and tell her there's plenty of room in the garage... for her!
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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #23 on: November 07, 2011, 08:57:36 AM »
FFJMoore's suggestion is a good one.  Is it a two seater or has it been converted to a single seater?  If it is a two seater, say it is for both of you to go riding on at the same time.  Let her know you will look for a backrest and some matching saddlebags.

What worked for me is that we have been 50/50 since the start and that includes the bank accounts.  As long as we pay our bills, we can spend our money as we wish.  Still works great after 13 years.

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Re: a honda/mrs problem
« Reply #24 on: November 07, 2011, 01:27:57 PM »
Ypu've gotta buy it Pete, CB1100R's are becoming very collectable. A mate of mine here in Melbourne has several and is a member of the CB1100R club in Britain. Every year he flies to England for the big Stafford bike show and is sponsored by the club, who pick him up from the airport, put him up in one of the members homes, take him to the show, then get him back to the airport for his flight home. He buys all the 1100R bits he can find at the show for his ever-increasing collection, and the guys ship it all back to Oz for him. Good blokes.

Anyway, when he was there last year he stayed with a retired engineer who, in 2007 used a big chunk of his superannuation savings to buy an extremely rare Honda NR750 oval pistoned beast with virtually no miles on the odometer. As expected, his wife went absolutely ballistic! He kept his head down and took her abuse, but had the last word when the GFC hit and his superannuation fund almost went belly up.

Had he not taken out the money for the NR he'd have pretty much lost everything, but in a couple of years time the NR will still be worth at least what he paid for it, if not considerably more. The "investment" argument may well help if you and the missus are looking at retiring in the next few years, and the occasional ride will be a lot more enjoyable than looking at your superannuation statements. Cheers, Terry. ;D   
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