....I guess we've all had things said to us that you just don't see coming, but I was at a business breakfast this morning, and was seated next to a couple of people who I hadn't seen for a few years and who I used to work with. Got talking about the old days and other old workmates of mine (it was only 10 years ago) and I asked "how's sally going?". I had kept in touch with her a bit since but hadn't spoken for a while, and always send a message for her birthday. Answer "didn't you know, she's dead. She was killed in a car accident a few months ago". I nearly fell off my chair - the poor people who told me were upset that I hadn't known and that I had to find out like I did, but not their fault.
I felt terrible that I hadn't known and only yesterday (this is true) thought I must give her a call.
So I sent a letter today to her husband and young son, was a very hard letter to write.
Anyway, I guess my point is you never know what the day is going to bring.