Is head flat?
My shop mechanic always check if head is flat, not banana before working on it.
Both sides, upper without cam holders to avoid binding cam.
Important to tighten head nuts in right order from inner to out. If tighten outer first and inner after, head will probably get a banana shape.
I usually tighten in several steps
Just lightly, 5, 10, 15, 20....
Everytime from inner to outer , the first inner 4 + 2 on each side going outwards.
The small M6 get their final when all are done. Around 9Nm.
20 ft lbs no problem with stock studs.
I use HD studs so a little bit more. MLS head gasket need 22 ft lbs.
Honda manual say very high torque on cam holders.
Why tighten harder than recommended max torque for a steel 8.8 bolt ?
Alu threads not that deep do not like it.
I tighten 8-9Nm (6-6.5 ft lbs) despite time-sert thread inserts.
I have a good torque wrench for small . 2.5-25Nm 1/4 sockets.
Another for head and clutch, 10-60Nm.
Nm vs ft lbs
https://www.unitconverters.net/energy/ft-lb-to-nm.htm