So your saying, when the alternator is only supplying 40-50W, and the load is 100w, which I checked and your correct (never questioned), it's draining 4.16 amps from the battery

I connected my analog meter to the following:
Negative = where the batteries negative wire is on the frame. I purchased a looped connector so it fits nicely.
Positive = is on the side of the positive wire that connects to the solenoid.
I installed a 3amp, 125vac switch from Radioshack in the positive line.
I checked with my digital meter on these locations and they checked out precisely. I even get the same numbers from the battery all the way up to the top of the bike on every, as you would say "ground".
I just got back from an hour ride, and when I stopped my bike in the drive, I jumped off, ran to the tool box to grab the meter.....It wasn't there.... Spent 2 mins finding it, than ran back to check the readings from the batt.....
It was reading exactly 13.13 volts. Is this good???
It's doing exactly the same thing that I described in my first post. Nothings changed.
I'm pretty much convinced that there's nothing wrong as well TT. Unless anybody else has any input??
I'm going to go study the regulator on my bike, for when I understand exactly how it works, the better I'll be able to figure out if I can adjust it. If not, and I break it, I've got 4 more of these to mess with

Thank you
LL