The hose nipples aren't supposed to come out of the fuel valve. With the stock hose, I just use a sturdy flat blade screwdriver tip to push the supple hose off the nipple (no twisting of the driver tip). You can't pull off the hose, as the tube shrinks in diameter when stretched. Conversely the hose expands when compressed over its length. The screwdriver tip compresses the hose, expanding it and making it release from the nipple barbs. You can alternate putting pressure on sides of the hose end to work the hose off the nipple. Use the two hands on the driver, one holds the handle end, the other pushes down on the screwdriver shank near the tip.
As I said before, you can raise the rear of the tank for better access. Open the seat, And push the rubber holder off the rear tank tab. Then raise the seat for more space.
Your, fuel lines aren't stock and may have been cut too short, or hardened with age, and that will make maintenance operations far more difficult than normal. If they are hardened, it may be why the nipples pulled out of the fuel selector, too.
Previous owners are very adept at torturing future owners.
Cheers,