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Offline seaweb11

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Evening boyfriend drama
« on: April 07, 2010, 09:56:12 PM »
So, here is my last hour.
I was out in the garage removing a rear wheel when I needed a bright lamp. I walked into my "in the house workshop"  and turned on the light and caught my 16 yr old daughter and her 18 year old boyfriend in a ...compromising position....not the 1st time ::)

I calmly said to him "Just get the #$%* out!".  No really, I didn't scream and I didn't REALLY loose my cool.  I turned and walked out of the room. Went to my office for maybe 2 Min's, and thought I would go back and reiterate my exit strategy for him again in case he didn't quite get it. Watched him through the window spinning the gravel with his tires on the way out as I walked in.

Had a chat with my daughter about it, told her I was disappointed that she was disrespecting me in my own house and left it at that.

I went back out to the garage to finish what I had started and 3 Min's later she comes bounding in the garage screaming "KJ", the boyfriend, had just rolled his car off the road and into the ocean!

I'll finish later.

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #1 on: April 07, 2010, 09:59:42 PM »
All Hail King Seaweb! Master of teh mindcontrols!!!  ;D

You are truly master of your own domain.

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #2 on: April 07, 2010, 10:24:33 PM »
You crazy Canuks....
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #3 on: April 07, 2010, 10:26:02 PM »
i hope the kid wasnt killed and all but does he have NO respect for you, your daughter and your wife? one would think after the first time that he would have gotten the message ya know?
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #4 on: April 07, 2010, 10:28:14 PM »
Yeah! Kids these days! Whatever happened to the backseat of a car, like the rest of us??? ::)

Hope nothing too dramatic happened to the kid...
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #5 on: April 07, 2010, 10:49:12 PM »
Oh geez, here we go again  ::)  Hang in there dad. But are they any different than we were?!
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2010, 03:49:11 AM »
Nah they are just the same as we were  ;), but we don't want to catch them at it  >:(;) cheers Mick.
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2010, 04:04:42 AM »
I hope everything is OK mate.
We did some sh1t when we were kids and got away with it much to our parents horror and now it's our turn.
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2010, 04:22:50 AM »
Jeeze, so what happened to the kid? I had the same problem with my daughter when she was 16. Lord only knows what she did before I caught her at it, but... The kids she was with was somewhat surely when I initially suggested he depart, and I also had to reiterate my point. I took my daughter out the next day for some driving lessons and asked her if she had any emotional ties to the guy. When she said no, I suggested that it would be more fun if she waited for someone she actually cared for a bit. It all worked out in the end, but it does age one a bit.

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2010, 04:50:10 AM »
Seaweb the quick answer is run to the car as the idiot is crawling out and say, "next time it'll be worse #$%*" and yes the kid's are different today they don't mind being caught (it's a statement) when I was that age girlfriends father took me aside and showed me war souvenir a schmieser sub machine gun that he removed from some one that he'd shot and said I shouldn't do any thing bad, get caught no sir not me.
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2010, 04:51:09 AM »
Wow, I don't want to think what is it like to step into such an scene.


My experience was the other way round. I once catched my parents in the middle of something. They knew I watched it, and the next morning all of us pretended nothing had happened...... a truly embarrassing moment, we never talked about it anymore.

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #11 on: April 08, 2010, 06:18:35 AM »
You reacted better than I would have man lol.

So is the boy okay or what?
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #12 on: April 08, 2010, 06:41:29 AM »
Never had daughters, but 2 boys. Both out of college now. They did give us the basic high school stuff that I recall in my days...drinking, girls, fast cars, loud music, etc. The youngest who was the wildest of the 2 had his mind set to get into the US Air Force Academy in CO. That was our saving grace his senior year. When they do the background check if he has even 1 underage drinking they will delete him from contention. And this is fact. So he was very good his senior year. He did go to the parties, but never had a drop. A couple of the parties got busted and he had to blow into the police alcohol test meter but always came up zero. He said it was sort of fun to watch the police bust happen with kids jumping out of windows and running. He said he could just sit there and be tested with no worries. In the end he got 3 nominations to the academy from senator and congressman, but was 1 point shy of the ACT requirement. He turned out to be a great son too. I hope things turn out OK for you, your daughter and KJ. Sometimes things like this happen for a reason. Be prepared for them to put some blame on you for kicking him out...even though it was him behind the wheel.
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #13 on: April 08, 2010, 06:55:16 AM »
Props for handling the 'situation" well.  i think many would have not.
I hope the kid is ok.  if it was intentional, i hope he gets help.   :-\

if it wasnt, well, you sure must have scared the sht out of him. :D :D ;D
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #14 on: April 08, 2010, 07:34:53 AM »
Guys, with daughters and boy friends it's all about intimidation.
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #15 on: April 08, 2010, 07:43:03 AM »
I am getting a bit woried by seawebs lack of response... :o   :o


 Maybe the bugger came back and  hid his computer... >:(
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #16 on: April 08, 2010, 07:49:55 AM »
When I first saw the title I though maybe to myself.....Hey wait a sec Derek doesn't have a boyfriend?!?!? Glad to hear it was your daughter's (not that there's anything wrong with that!  :D )

As the father of 2 girls....I am dreading all of this! They are only 10 and 8 but I know my day will come.

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #17 on: April 08, 2010, 08:26:39 AM »
I think a father with girls has to come to terms with the fact he may have to kill someone! :D

Just remember guys, we were/are with someone daughter. Teen girls are quick to date older guys though and I think that is the hard point. As men, we know what older teen guys want. Hopefully we can teach our daughters what type of person they should look for and how to respect themselves.

I would not presume to speak for seaweb though. We do not know the compromising position he found them in.

Hopefully everything is all right in his neck o' the woods.

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #18 on: April 08, 2010, 08:57:53 AM »
Man, if I ever have girls and they get to that age the boy WILL meet me if he wants to date my daughter and I WILL be cleaning my guns even if they don't need cleaning when I meet him.

I'll then pull him aside and tell him in a nice, soft voice "You know you could disappear and they'll never find you?? Hard to convict when you don't have a body or evidence."

Then I'll wish him good luck on the date.  ;D

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #19 on: April 08, 2010, 08:59:55 AM »
Man, if I ever have girls and they get to that age the boy WILL meet me if he wants to date my daughter and I WILL be cleaning my guns even if they don't need cleaning when I meet him.

I'll then pull him aside and tell him in a nice, soft voice "You know you could disappear and they'll never find you?? Hard to convict when you don't have a body or evidence."

Then I'll wish him good luck on the date.  ;D



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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #20 on: April 08, 2010, 09:01:32 AM »
I have nightmares about stuff like this with my kids, especially my daughter.  I was a young boy once, I know how it goes.  :(
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #21 on: April 08, 2010, 09:03:19 AM »
You can tell us the truth, you cut the brake lines on the kids car. All kidding aside, I hope hes okay.
I use to be that kid, actually I was the good one. The 16 year girl was always trying to jump my bones.
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #22 on: April 08, 2010, 09:14:26 AM »
Man, if I ever have girls and they get to that age the boy WILL meet me if he wants to date my daughter and I WILL be cleaning my guns even if they don't need cleaning when I meet him.

I'll then pull him aside and tell him in a nice, soft voice "You know you could disappear and they'll never find you?? Hard to convict when you don't have a body or evidence."

Then I'll wish him good luck on the date.  ;D



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I could always use the (lifting the shirt) "hey Jimmy, see this scar? (apendix removal) wanna know at what prison i got it? it was pretty nice there.  i dont mind going back.  have fun on your date  ;D"
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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #23 on: April 08, 2010, 09:18:46 AM »
What scares me most is they will date the High School Football linebacker and I won't be able to intimidate him!!! Have you seen the size of some of the kids now adays  :o

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Re: Evening boyfriend drama
« Reply #24 on: April 08, 2010, 09:28:30 AM »
Dennis you can always intimidate them remember you're older, more experienced and nastier. Mention because you drive a bike you have an in with the pres of the BDR or Hell's.
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