Never had daughters, but 2 boys. Both out of college now. They did give us the basic high school stuff that I recall in my days...drinking, girls, fast cars, loud music, etc. The youngest who was the wildest of the 2 had his mind set to get into the US Air Force Academy in CO. That was our saving grace his senior year. When they do the background check if he has even 1 underage drinking they will delete him from contention. And this is fact. So he was very good his senior year. He did go to the parties, but never had a drop. A couple of the parties got busted and he had to blow into the police alcohol test meter but always came up zero. He said it was sort of fun to watch the police bust happen with kids jumping out of windows and running. He said he could just sit there and be tested with no worries. In the end he got 3 nominations to the academy from senator and congressman, but was 1 point shy of the ACT requirement. He turned out to be a great son too. I hope things turn out OK for you, your daughter and KJ. Sometimes things like this happen for a reason. Be prepared for them to put some blame on you for kicking him out...even though it was him behind the wheel.