i need a new front end setup. bad. where can i get that 3.5 rim ?
Front? I thought we were talking rear? The front should be narrower to begin with, like a 1.65? Going larger on the front will really affect handling, though for your style (chopper/bobber) it will look all right. I don't know how much more you can go on the front. I doubt a 3.5 will go there. By front end setup what do you mean? Just a new rim/tire, or a new front end, forks and all.
To your question, rims can be had haphazardly from many sources. If you want to go right to the quick, get what you want when you want the first time, Buchanan's Wheels at
www.Bucanansspokes.com is the only place in town, IMO. Remember anything you do by way of rim will require spokes.
Get your wallet out.
Some people will tell you they've had bad experience or they don't like the service. Happens. Nevertheless Buch- is the biggest and the best.
If you are talking the 16" "Harley Conversion" on the rear, they can be had many places, for much less than Buchanan's. look on eBay. The rim will be chrome steel. The spokes will be chrome also.
Build it yourself, many here have.