Well - again thanks to this forum, not only to those that replied to this thread but to the others that posted their processes to deal with tank coating and rust issues. Here is where I am now - about 1 week later.
1 gallon of MEK used up. As said above, plugged with freeze plug and rubber cork. about 1/3 gallon MEK in. let it sit, swish it around, leave tank in different orientations. I did get some leak when left upside down from center of freeze plug, so dont recommend leaving it like that. Just due to my schedule, it sat for 2 days in different orientations. Poured it out, nasty red and stringy "skins" Definitely red kite. repeated this 2 more times over course of 5 or 6 days.
Didnt get a picture but most of the red kote was gone and by last 1/3 of MEK, the solvent was not coming out deep brown/red.
Next - Rinsed it with hot water over and over. lots of the "skins" coming out and repeated until this stopped
Next - one bottle of the WORKS full strength. let sit in different orientations and also swish the tank around and turn over and over....This sat for about 1 to 2 hours. Poured it out and WOW it was really looking better.
Repeated with fresh bottle of WORKS and left it this time for about an hour.
Rinsed fully with warm water and baking soda. Probably did about 4 to 6 gallons through the tank and used a heaping 1/2 cup of baking soda per gallon
One last rinse with warm water
drained all water then 1 quart of acetone which absorbs water very well. drained it out and let it air dry
At this time, I am not going to re-coat with red kote, or mist it with MMO or other oil. If it flash rusts, I will rinse one more time with works and then red kote it.
Before pics are up this thread. Here is a couple after shots.
I think it looks pretty good, but am no expert. Any thoughts or feed back on next steps are always welcome.