Totally, I hear you! Maybe my experiences will help with that:
On my 750 (my first bike, 6-7 years ago) I was burning oil, fouling plugs, bike was running like crap. I decided it must be the valves, so I tried lapping them in with stock guides. Didn't run well and still burned oil. Thanks to people on this forum, and taking a ton of photos, I learned my engine had significant blow-by, and my valve guides were out of spec.
I had Competition remove the old guides, press in new APE guides, and cut new seats, as well as mill the deck flat, and bore the cylinder block out to 2nd oversize. It's been running perfectly for a few years now. I should have done that from the start. Would have saved me the money I wasted on the first rebuild, plus the time, plus saved me a whole summer where the bike wasn't rideable due to the oil consumption problem.
I revived a '74 cb350F for my wife last year and ran into the same thing. I started by lapping valves, new rings on some spare pistons, honed the block almost up to the wear limit as it had some light scoring. I was looking to save money wherever I could.
In the end I had to do the exact same thing as the 750... Took the head to Competition and had the valve seats cut and the surface milled, but was able to keep the original valve guides after they measured in spec. The block went to Brazier (competition couldn't handle such a small bore) and bored out for bigger pistons. I'm firing it up today actually. But the bike has been out of service all summer because my budget-focused rebuild over the winter was a failure.
The next SOHC Honda I get I'll be darn tempted to just do this all off the hop if the engine isn't obviously in good running shape. The cost of parts and labour can add up, but it's nothing compared to have no running bike...