Gear lube, sometimes several times a day. As soon as you get out of a rain.
I bought a sub 20 chain in 07, probably got at least 4 or 5 k out of it.
When you first put it on, how much it stretches first day tells you a lot.
A Tsubaki QR is prestretched, most good chains are, install it lube it ride it, no immediate sdjustment.
It is a bit of work, choose to do it or not, my buddy got 40,000 miles out of a Diamond. Not sure if it was XDL but Hondaman get very long life out of the too.