Think of it like a puzzle. If you're trying to stretch or bend or force it, the pieces are not positioned correctly.
Look very carefully at the picture. In the starting position for installation, sprocket is loosely in place near the center of the cam, slightly offset to the #4 cylinder side. You lift the cam chain and slide the cam into position from the #4 side moving toward #1.
The cam will be able to fully rest in the normal operating position with the chain looped over it and the cam sprocket loose in the smaller diameter groove.
Now lift the chain and place it in position over the sprocket. The sprocket is still in the narrow groove until the chain is in place.
Once the chain rests properly in the teeth of the sprocket, you can then move the sprocket into the final position.
If you find yourself trying to stretch or bend or you start scratching parts together, STOP! Something got out of position.
It's like a puzzle, it fits together easily & logically. It's just not obvious at first.
Once you get the sprocket in place, you might find that you have to "walk" the sprocket one way or the other in order to get the bolt holes and timing marks all lined up.
You can do it!