I compared the schematic to the oil tank, and it looks like #20 is directed at the drain plug, not the oil connection in back of the tank?
It would make sense if the forward hose (B), which is the return hose - didn't have a crush washer as it wouldn't do any good? That would be the one I don't have. I dunno
If it is required at both hoses, it turns out a 2002 XR250 drain bolt crush washer is the same part as #20, so I would have one.