As TG asked "are you using the workshop manual to set up your motor? if not, use it."
To me it all sounds procedural not mechanical. I have a Honda Shop Manual, a Chilton's, a Clymer's, and a Cycleserv. They all are similar but they all have mistakes, even the Honda manual. They are also somewhat general in their approaches. Honda made many changes and modifications over 9 years. The older manuals could not pick up on the yet to be changed changes. By using them together and comparing, asking questions of those that know, and taking plenty of time thinking about what I'm about to do I've had success. You're not in the US or UK but your English is as good as any of us so I wouldn't think there would be a translational issue either. I just think you're missing a step or 2 in how you put it together.
You can't go wrong by using Locktite (I'm a Harley owner) but I've never used it on my Honda. I've just always relied on a torque wrench. Lucky perhaps but I do plan on using it on my soon to be US $6000 engine!