I still think that if the starting fluid isn't lighting, there is a different problem here. How old are your spark plug caps? Do you know what their resistance is? If they are too old, the resistance could be high enough that your spark is arcing from the caps to the head, never reaching the spark plug. The cap may be far enough from the engine during a simple spark check (removing the spark plug, grounding it and turning over the engine) that it shows a nice fat spark.
Resistance check is too easy. Pull the cap off the plug, unscrew it from the wire, then run an ohmmeter over it. Any half decent multimeter will have an ohmmeter. Here's a great thread on it:
http://forums.sohc4.net/index.php?topic=67096.0Also, since you said both 1 and 4 were wet with fuel, maybe run a quick continuity test over that coil. It is just as simple. Take your multimeter and set it to continuity mode. You can also just run this test in the resistance setting and watch any changes. touch one lead to the 1 spark plug wire and touch the other lead to the 4 spark plug wire. Any change in your readings, or the continuity beep, means that the coil is good.
I don't even have a fraction of the troubleshooting experience that TT does, but I figure even if both of my hunches are wrong, they are very quick, simple checks that don't hurt anything and require minimal effort. Good luck finding your problem!!