I would advise against emery paper and just clean the gasket surface really well.
A dab of acetone on a white rag over the tip of your finger, and continue to go over and over the surfaces until the rag comes up clean.
Copper coat, 2-3 light coats a few minutes apart.
As AJK stated, wait a bit for it to get really tacky, and then install it.
Torque in steps, up to the desired max, let it set a day.
Give all nuts 1/2 turn to loosen in reverse torque order, and then retorque in the proper sequence.