I'm sure glad this thread came up. I've got the new lower case and cylinder studs I'm getting ready to install with the Carillo upgrade. After hearing of these problems, I discussed it with my local machinist and friend (the same fellow making the frame kits). He has been removing studs from outboard blocks and aluminum cylinder heads for many years. He says there is only one "correct" way to do it.
Charles heats the blocks/heads in an oven to 350~400 degrees. Then he grabs the studs with two Visegrips - opposed so you can twist them without any side load. He says you need to turn them out like a T-handle. He never uses an extractor until they are turning using the T-handle concept. He has never had one break if the block is heated and the stud turned with even pressure from opposing sides. There is also risk of damaging the threads in the block if you don't use the heating method because the bond/corrosion from dis-similar metals.
I spoke with Buzz (Dynoman) and he says the heat is required to do it right. He agrees with the method Charles uses and advises that I not try short-cuts.
I wish I could have posted this before you had the experience, but thanks for the head-up that trouble awaited me.
Regards,
Gordon