On the retorque question, yes. Use your torquing sequence first to snug then 1/2 torque value, then full torque value. I think the head value is 16.6 ft. lbs. On the second torque after 24 hrs. One fastner at a time loosen and retorque, take your time and slowly pull the wrench around until it gives you your reading. Don't rush. Mine click when the proper torque is reached. You really don't need to put anything on the head gasket, put it on as is.
At this point I cannot stress enough that before you start installing the head, you make sure everything is clean and dry. Lay it all out, nuts and washers. They should be clean and dry, stud threads as well. Wipe down the head mating surface as well, if you've done it well, when your done assembling you and the engine will be clean and dry. The only part I lube are the (two, i think) washers that have the rubber bottoms, it'll keep them from chaffing (preventing a leak) when you torque them. I torque everything dry, that's just me, some lube all threaded area's and then torque. If someone else wants to add whether you torque wet or dry be my quest. (Its like the oil threads that get started occasionally. OMG.) Wait 24 hrs. then retorque, and if ya really want to do it right, wait 2 or 3 days and check the torque again, everything settles. Be patient, at this stage it pays big dividends. If you don't have one, get (borrow) a decent torque wrench, it matters.