hey Sandcaster - you come on pretty heavy for a guy who maybe wants some assistance and information from the learned group called "the forum members", so giving everybody or anybody a serve about how to respond is a bit harsh in my eyes.... if you don't like the comments then that's fair enough...if you think this forum isn't fair thats fair enough as well.... if you think there are many opinions about the subject posted ... I think there might be......put up with it.............don't get narky and bag out members who like to state their opinion or comment, just because you percieve or don't like the inferred or non inferred tone is irrespective..............
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Read my post it was reasonable.
I appreciate it you're saying 'you lack grace' and that was my point exactly. I took the role
of playing gotcha and you didn't like it. That was my point! And I explained it by example.
You gotta understand -- you're saying that you now want Paddy to come back and say this:
"Okay, Okay, I was lying about the jets, it was really XXxX, sorry for bsing you."
My point was you let people have some FACE SAVING. Help the board, sure,
but dont tell Paddy straight up you don't believe them and do -- what -- force them
to admit they lied? WHY? No point in it.
That was me playing GOTCHA on Spanner and David
and you guys didn't like it. Well that was my POINT!
Dont play Gotcha. Let people have some 'face saving' space.
My intent is to make this a decent forum because a lot of you are perfectly OK
with slamming people and I'm saying 'there's a better way.' That's all.
It's not too much to ask.
I was not at all offended -- I'm not Paddy, I just wanted you guys to maybe
have look at the receiving end of it.