Instead of?

I have very little down-time at home to begin with

I have 4 kids. (boys 10&7, twin girls 3)
I volunteer coaching baseball for kids with special needs.
high-functioning kids to wheelchair-bound with CP. (my youngest son qualifies for this team)
I build and repair custom fly rods and instruct recurring rod-building classes at a local fly fishing shop.
I am a USPTR Certified Tennis Professional.
I teach 8-10 hours per week, and play on and coach several nationally ranked adult teams.
I get my riding in to and from my various jobs.
I work on my CB and drink whisky or tequila when all of the above is done and the house is quiet.