You really should not take a hit on the bike, and it might be better to keep him off the seat like the dad wanted... It depends upon his maturity and attitude on the bike, but sometimes, despite your efforts things happen and you have a crash or heaven forbid get killed on the bike. A bad crash can leave you in very bad shape, in a state worse that death I think. Sometimes it is more humane to let you die than go through the rest of your life severely maimed or brain damaged to the point your quality of life afterwards is very small.
My family does not like motorcycles, but for me it is good mental therapy and helps me with the depression I often have. A bad weather day on a bike is usually better than any day inside a car or inside a home or business.
My little sister had bought a Nighthawk 250 and had it for about a year before taking a spill in a corner with gravel. She did not practice good situation awareness and that or her training and mantra to know how to react to situations like that were not well enough to tilt the odds in her favor to making it safely through the corner. She sold that bike after that, not getting back on it and having some road rash.
It was a mid-life crisis type bike...
You stated earlier " I got the head and cylinder off, it's standard bore, the cam is an R7 core and looks good, There are a few oversize bolts in and under the cam holder. "
Is the R7 a type of cam or just the casting number for the mold it came out of... Often cast parts will have numbers that id the casting mold...in case there is a problem to trace back to that mold.
David