The starter does engage, theres just not power enough to pull the engine. The starter button/console is brand new. I misunderstood the question with the clicking sound, i listened while i turned the key. Tried again, and the solenoid DO engage/click when hitting the starter button.
BUT... I bought a new voltmeter since the casing on the old one was broken.. Guess what.. Quite different readings. Measured the battery off the bike to 9,8V and on the bike when idling at around 8V.
I know this thread has been somewhat confusing... I am too. Going to charge the battery again and see what it says. It may be that my brand new gel battery is just not working right or that the charging system is crap. Going to have to get some measurements with the bike running again, can't trust the old ones now.