Sorry to rub it in, but this sounds to me like a case of "A poor craftsman blames his tools".
Well, I have doubts you are truly sorry. But, I never claimed to be proficient on a lathe. Of course, I've never operated a known good one, either.
So you tell me, it is normal for the cross slide wheel to turn very tight through half its rotation and be way loose through the other half? The tool slide lead screw does the same thing, only worse.
Cross slide movement direction play is 7 graduations (.014"), 6 graduations (.012") on the tool slide wheel, And 20 graduations (.040") on the saddle lead screw hand wheel.
This is normal for a quality tool?
How interesting would it be for a master carver to be given only a butter knife, no sharpening tools, and hard maple to carve?
I began to play guitar on a cheap $5 used Stella. (Mom was pissed I quit her piano lessons, and $5 was about all I had.) The neck was warped upwards with 3/8 to 1/2" action at the fretboard near the body. Worse, the top sound board was cracked and allowed the neck to list upwards to where the sixth string missed the fretboard upwards of the 8th fret. I'd never known what a good guitar should be as I had no instructor. I was able to learn chords only if finger positions above the 4th fret were never used.
The guitar was so hard to fret, I nearly gave up completely, and did so for three months. I did learn all the chords I could up to the 3rd fret. 5th fret chords were near impossible to play clearly.
I could finger them, but I couldn't fret them. When I traded and HO train for a sears Strat copy, it was so easy to play that I advanced capability tremendously, and learned more in a month than I had learned in the previous year. People wanted to listen to me play.
I love tools, and can usually recognize a good quality one if I see it first. The Smithy was mail order. If I knew then what I know now, I'd have sent it back.
The Stella looked like a guitar when I bought it.
The Smithy looked like a lathe when I bought it.
They seem to be equivalent quality and both make the operator work harder and struggle more to do even simple things.
I think the Smithy can be reworked to function way better. But, I'll need another lathe to make new parts for it.