I tightened stock nuts 20 ft lbs with APE studs in my ongoing K2 build. Back in the 80’s 20.6 ft lbs with stock studs and stock nuts.
I use standard forged nuts with kibblewhite hd studs in my K6. Flange is thicker, thin washer used under. It might be needed to grind the flange some to get longer thread lenght. A machine to make it real flat and 90 degrees rel threads.
I have mentioned the type of nuts several times, DIN 6331
Like this
https://www.elesa-ganter.com/products/machine-elements/series/din-6331Note! You need 13 mm socket to tighten. Stock is 12mm
Some heads have really tight holes for the 4 short studs. My K1 head need a thin 1/4” 13mm socket.
Cheap sockets are often thick, good brands have thinner walls since they are better made and use better steel. Bacho, Gedore, Kamasa and maybe Hazet have thin walled sockets as I know