recently I saw a nice bench top.
the guy did:
double layer, 2 layers of 2x6's for the top, stager all seems, lineal, & cross < solid.
you might not be to old for family. I am 57, I married a nice young girl, that I met in China in 2005 and brought her to America. We have a baby boy now, he is almost 4 years old. I don't have a garage full of toys anymore, but I DO NOT regret it.