That would be true for a fresh bore. The OP said that it was just a hone job, so the bore is slightly tapered. Plus with the rings all the way at the top, they are not being measured in the wear area of the bore. I know, I'm probably picking fly poop out of pepper here, that is just the way I was taught.
That still doesn't answer why the gaps are so varied though. I tend to agree with the others, he got a funky set of rings.
Hey Rosewood, if you order another set from the same vendor you could mix and match to get the best results and then return the goofy set for a refund. I would think the vendor would step up on this and overlook the 30 policy.
Good luck with it though.